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I’m really happy in the Situationship that I’ve been in for awhile and I know that it’s not

21 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker describes a year‑long, drama‑free situationship in which they meet a few times each month, share occasional communication and favors, and enjoy a satisfying sexual connection without expectations of cohabitation or deeper commitment. The speaker emphasizes the mutual happiness and lack of stress, noting that such a non‑traditional arrangement may be unusual for their age but works well for both parties. They argue that individuals, especially later in life, can intentionally design relationships that deviate from conventional norms, tailoring them to personal needs and preferences. The speaker concludes by inviting listeners to consider what their ideal relationship would look like.

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Let's talk about situationships. A situationship isn't really a friends with benefits because the situationship that I've been in for the past year now actually is a very drama stress-free relationship where I basically meet up with this person a couple times a month, 2, 3 times a month. We do speak to each other from time to time. Sometimes he does nice things for me, like fix stuff. We have a really good time together in bed, but there's not any drama, there's not any stress, and we're certainly not talking about moving in together or getting more involved than we currently are. I think we're both incredibly happy in this situation-ship that we've been in, and I know it's unusual for somebody of my age maybe to be in a relationship like this, but it suits us both and it works for us, so I don't really see anything wrong with it. And I think you can design your relationships, especially at this later stage of life, as you want them, not thinking about necessarily doing it in the traditional way if you don't want to. What's the kind of ideal relationship that works for you?