Suzanne NobleHost, Sex Advice for Seniors · Sex, Dating & Relationship Advice for Over 50s

I’ve had several partners over the years who were resistant to the idea of bringing a Seggs toy into

21 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker addresses common male resistance to a woman bringing a sex toy into the bedroom, explaining that such resistance often stems from perceived threats to masculinity. She highlights the physiological changes that occur in older women—specifically the deterioration of nerve sensitivity—that make orgasm more difficult, and argues that strong, discreet bullet vibrators can effectively compensate for these changes. She describes the simplicity, multiple vibration settings, and discreet nature of bullet toys, noting their utility both for solo play and during partnered sex. The speaker emphasizes that there should be no shame in using toys to enhance sexual experiences, framing them as tools for mutual pleasure rather than replacements for a partner’s performance.

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Talk about bringing sex toys into the bedroom. I know that some people, men particularly, may think that when a woman brings a sex toy into the bedroom, she's undermining his ability, that he's not as virile, that maybe he's not doing his job. But there's nothing wrong with bringing a sex toy into the bedroom, especially because as older women, those smaller nerves down in those intimate areas start to deteriorate. And that's why it's more difficult to have an orgasm often as an older woman. And that's where strong vibrations come in. Me particularly, I like just a small, simple little bullet. You can find lots of different ones just like this on the internet. They just are just really simple to use. They have multiple strong vibrations. You can use them very discreetly while you're having sex. I don't think anybody would say this looks anything like a penis. And this is just gonna help you reach those areas where perhaps it's difficult to reach when you are having penetrative sex. It's great for self-pleasure as well, but really, when we think about bringing toys in the bedroom, there shouldn't be any shame around it if it's just there to enhance your sexual experience and just make things better.