Foot fetishes are generally harmless and can be enjoyable, but become problematic when they're the only way someone can orgasm. The speaker thinks many fetishes develop from early porn exposure or formative sexual experiences, and suggests trying foot worship if you haven't.
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One of our followers asked if I'd talk about foot fetishes, and I've not spoken about foot fetishes before, so I thought, why not? Why not speak about them? For me, foot fetishes are, on the scale of fetishes, and I'm no expert, quite harmless and quite pleasant. I don't know many women who wouldn't, who would turn down a lovely, lovely pair of shoes if it meant that all she had to do was be adored, have her feet adored worshipped, all of that sort of thing. I have a dear friend who's a foot fetishist, and he's lovely. He's a lovely, lovely person. Um, for me, fetishes only really become problematic when they're so specific, or they be— or they're the only trigger that will lead you to being able to orgasm, that after a while it can become quite problematic within a relationship. Because let's face it, you don't want to have to do the same thing, reenact the same scenario over and over and over again just to get your partner aroused. I suspect that many of them are a result of watching pornography or may have been triggered in early, you know, in your youth or, you know, when you were younger by seeing something that suddenly led to you being aroused, and as a result of that, that visual has now become quite a specific trigger to get you off, and I, you know, I think that's a problem. But when it comes to just foot worship, if you've never had your feet worshipped, if you've never had your toes licked and sucked and your feet just adored, then I would suggest that you give it a go because it's very pleasant.