Men! Are you chasing a woman's orgasm?

Are you an orgasm chaser? Or to put it another way, are you one of those men who consider it your responsibility to make a woman orgasm? Because I can tell you, there is no bigger turn-off than a man who is making it clear that having a woman orgasm is his goal, and he is going to do whatever it takes to get you there. Because when it all comes down to it, pardon the pun, it's us who control whether or not we have an orgasm. And unless we allow ourselves to relax, to have the direct stimulation that we need to have an orgasm, then it's unlikely that whatever you're doing is going to suddenly make us come. And most women do not come from penetrative sex. The vast majority of women do not come from penetrative sex. So whatever you're doing, if you're pounding away thinking that ultimately you're going to get to that magic moment, it's unlikely to happen because our anatomy just doesn't work that way. And it is enormous pressure on us when we're with somebody who is so adamant that making us come is going to give him the ultimate pleasure. Because it's really like an alpha male thing when it boils down to it. This sort of, you know, feeling that they're so amazing in bed that they can boast to their friends that, you know, they can make any woman come. Because it just doesn't work like that. And being with somebody who clearly is pressuring you to have an orgasm mainly because that's going to get them off is a real turn-off for us. It's not really about the endgame, and it really never should be about the endgame. It's just about the pleasure. It's about the journey. If you come, then that's great, but if you don't, you know what? That's good too.