Suzanne NobleHost, Sex Advice for Seniors · Sex, Dating & Relationship Advice for Over 50s

One of my followers asked me if I would speak about this and so here you go

22 Jan 2026 · 2 min

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In this monologue, the speaker explains the appeal of male submissive and cuckold fantasies and the complementary desire of many women to assume a femme‑dom role. She argues that men in high‑pressure, control‑oriented jobs often find sexual submission a way to release the constant need to be in charge, enjoying the relief of being told what to do and pleasing their partner. The speaker also notes that many women, who frequently lack control in daily life, find empowerment and satisfaction in taking charge—whether that means directing household tasks, foot rubs, or more elaborate scenes. She highlights cuckolding as a specific subset where a man derives arousal from watching his partner with others. Throughout, she frames sub‑dom dynamics as a creative, consensual playground for expressing desires and balancing power outside of everyday roles.

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Let's talk about men who like to be dominated by women. Sometimes these men are called submissives, sometimes they're called cuckolds, although that tends to be a very specific scenario where a man might enjoy seeing his partner being pleasured by other people and get off on that. Um, submission is really just about relinquishing control in whatever way that you want. And for a lot of people who have very high-powered jobs, who are often feeling like they just have to be in control of things all the time, this kind of submissive behavior in a sexual relationship can just feel like completely letting go, not having to think, and just enjoying being told what to do, knowing that you are going to be satisfying your partner. And lots of women conversely like being in control because, let's face it, often in this world we're not in control. So lots of women, women that I know especially, love being in that what's called femme dom position where they take control, they take charge, and they tell their submissive what it is that they want them to do. Could be clean the house, for example. Could be, you know, like, rub my feet. Could be a lot more than that. Could be sit in a corner and behave yourself until I tell you that you can move, um, and all sorts of other things. I mean, it's really just about playing around and being creative, and that's the thing that I do love about these sorts of um, sub-dom relationships, it's often— it's a very creative way of expressing what it is that you want and what it is that you enjoy. Um, and of course, for lots of women who are not in control of their day-to-day life, being in that position of power can be incredibly satisfying.