A look at death grip, the desensitization caused by masturbating with excessive pressure. Porn and overstimulation are the likely culprits. The fix is simple: stop masturbating for a few weeks to a month and let your nerves recover their sensitivity.
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Let's talk about the death grip. The death grip is a style of masturbation that has become quite popular, gets written about a lot, whereby a guy basically has to like strangulate his dick in order to be able to come. Often if you are struggling with having an orgasm and you find that the only way to come, if you can come at all, is by literally grabbing your dick super hard and then jerking off, then that is in fact the death grip. You'll probably find as well that it's impossible to come through penetrative sex, and if you don't strangulate your dick, you're not going to come either. So what can you do about it? Well, there's one very simple thing you can do, which is just stop masturbating so much. Probably means if you're doing it along to porn, not watching so much porn. Not masturbating so much, taking a break from jerking off. Try a few weeks. If you can, try going a month. What's going to happen? Some of those nerves that have become desensitized and numb are going to spring back into life. Yes, they can spring back into life, and you'll find that they are much more sensitive. You don't need to use that much force, and you might even be able to come through penetrative sex. Wouldn't that be awesome?
