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Seggs therapist Ruth Ramsay posted this and I thought it was worth reminding my followers who are

21 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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In this brief video segment, the speaker shares a statistic that the average time for a woman to reach orgasm is about 14 minutes, noting that older women may take longer and younger women may be quicker. The speaker emphasizes that the exact duration is not crucial and advises partners not to comment negatively or shame a woman for taking longer or shorter than the average. The core message is to normalize the variability in orgasm timing and encourage supportive, non‑judgmental communication during sexual activity.

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Let's talk about the big O. Did you know that it takes a woman on average 14 minutes to have an orgasm? So you guys out there, firstly, don't say, "God, it's taking you a long time to come," because that's not going to help. And 14 minutes is the average. That means that for an older woman, it's probably a bit longer. For a younger woman, it might be a bit quicker. Doesn't really matter though how long it takes. It doesn't even matter if you get there, but just know that 14 minutes is the average. So if it takes you longer, don't feel bad. If it takes you 14 minutes, well, you're perfectly average.