This content was created by Suzanne Noble. This content was uploaded by Suzanne Noble. This is a YouTube video titled "Sex Advice For Seniors #dating #datingadvice #top" (uploaded 2023-12-22) containing a first-person monologue in which a speaker describes her unconventional dating approach—pushing dates outside their comfort zone to test compatibility. She gives examples (a spa on a second date, naturist settings, unusual concerts), references past partners and her children, and frames this as advice or personal reflection about dating.
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I suspect I don't really date like most people date because I like to push people way outside their comfort zone, usually on date one, and see how they react. Because if they really go for it and they think, wow, that's an original idea, then great. And if they get scared shitless and run away, then probably not so great, because I like doing crazy shit. And it's fun to do it with other people who also like doing crazy stuff. So I remember when I was with someone for a number of years, on our second date, I don't think it's that crazy, but we went to a spa where we had to obviously wear, you know, bathing suits and stuff like that. And my kids thought that was mad that on our second date we were gonna get semi-naked, as they put it, and said, wow, you know, that's really out there, but I didn't think that was out there. I thought, what a nice relaxing afternoon we're gonna have chilling out in a steam room and a sauna and going for a swim and just relaxing and having a nice little lunch at this beautiful spa place, and it's gonna be really fun. And it was, and it led to us being in a relationship for a number of years. And yeah, I've gone on all sorts of crazy dates to, you know, to other kind of similarly crazy places. Sometimes getting naked and not necessarily even having sex in places where you get naked, like naturist sort of places, or just taking people to concerts with music that they might not like too much. Peter and I, on our first date, went to see a, yeah, some music from, I think it was the 16th century, might've been even earlier than that, that a friend of mine was performing in that I absolutely love, but you know, not everybody's cup of tea. So I really like to stretch people outside their comfort zone because in that way I can see what they're made of.