Suzanne NobleHost, Sex Advice for Seniors · Sex, Dating & Relationship Advice for Over 50s

Sex and role-playing

4 Jan 2023 · 2 min

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In this monologue, the speaker argues that long‑term sexual relationships can become predictable and boring, which may drive partners to seek excitement elsewhere. To counteract this, the speaker proposes role‑playing as a practical, flexible tool. Role‑playing does not need to be elaborate; it can simply involve swapping leadership, experimenting with dominant/submissive dynamics, or inventing a brief scenario or story to share before or during sex. By altering the way partners approach each other, role‑playing can make routine sexual encounters feel fresh, fun, and more engaging, thereby strengthening the relationship and reducing the risk of infidelity.

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Hello. We'd all be lying to ourselves if we didn't admit that having sex with the same person over a substantial amount of time can get rather predictable and boring. And you have to switch it up from time to time to get— to keep it exciting and fresh. Otherwise, it's highly likely that one or the other person may go and seek their entertainment elsewhere. And that's where role-playing comes in. It doesn't have to be something silly, not that I can think of anything silly right at this very moment because it's too early in the day, but even just changing the way that you approach each other. So it may be that one person is the one who takes the lead and the other one decides to do it, or one person pretends to be very dominating when while the other pretends to be quite submissive, or vice versa. Or you just come up with a nice little scenario, nice little story that you share with the other person either before or while you're having sex. Role-playing can be really, really fun, and it could just enhance your sex life in ways that make that predictable way that you've had sex every day seem rather, well, tame in comparison.