Suzanne NobleHost, Sex Advice for Seniors · Sex, Dating & Relationship Advice for Over 50s

So many men I’ve been on dates with never ask me anything about myself or when they do seem surprise

5 Sept 2023 · 1 min

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In this brief commentary, the speaker emphasizes the adage "If you don't ask, you don't get" as a guiding principle for both sexual fulfillment and building genuine connections. They argue that without asking about a person's life, history, interests, and passions, one cannot truly understand or connect with them. The speaker stresses that proactive inquiry is essential for meaningful relationships.

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My mother told me, and I'm a firm believer in the expression, "If you don't ask, you don't get." And I think that applies to so many aspects of life. It definitely applies to getting what you want sexually, but it also applies to just getting to know somebody. If you don't ask about their life, if you don't ask a bit about their history, about who they are, about what they enjoy, about what really gets them excited, then how are you going to get to know them?