A sex educator answers whether toys feel better solo or with a partner, then changes her mind. She explains both can be great depending on what you want, and recommends her booklet on Amazon that curates toy options for individuals and couples.
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I have to answer this question that somebody posed, which is, do sex toys feel better when they're being used on you, or do you think they're better when you use them on yourself? And I immediately said, no, no, I think that they're always better if you use them on yourself. And then I thought about it, and I thought, no, that's not completely true, because when you do use them with a partner, it can just be quite horny just watching their different expressions expressions as you're using the toy on them, and it can just enhance their pleasure. So, and I think the same goes for me as well. Sometimes it's just quite sexy to have somebody use them on you. So that immediate reaction I had of no, that was wrong, really. I should have thought about that. I should have taken a little breath and thought about it, because I think, you know what, it's whatever really turns you on. What I would say is that toys in themselves can be really fun. They can enhance your sex life. Nobody should be ashamed of using them. And if you're struggling to find one that suits you, I've got this little booklet you can find on Amazon called Sex Toys and Supplements for Thriving in Later Life, or you'll find it if you happen to be on Facebook in my little featured section. It's a great little booklet that I produced of all my favorite toys that I've tried out or people I know have tried out. So that you don't have to go through all the trouble of scanning websites and thinking, oh, that looks good, oh, that looks good. No, I just tell you the stuff that I think is really awesome, and then you can go and buy it for yourself or for your partner or as a gift or whatever. So yeah, that's my answer. Sex toys— fun on your own, fun with somebody else, just fun.
