Suzanne NobleHost, Sex Advice for Seniors · Sex, Dating & Relationship Advice for Over 50s

The Art of Enjoying Unhurried Moments Together...

13 Sept 2024 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker argues that sex should be scheduled like any other commitment to ensure it happens. By deliberately allocating time in a diary, preparing the environment with music, a bath or shower, and candles, intimacy becomes a prioritized, enjoyable activity rather than an afterthought. The speaker emphasizes that making space for pleasure is essential in adult life and shares personal enthusiasm for this structured approach.

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Let's talk about making time for sex. I know it may sound prescriptive and you think, "Oh really, scheduling in sex? Shouldn't it be spontaneous?" But I am definitely of the opinion that sex is fun when you know that it's going to happen and you schedule it in your diary the same as you would a meeting or a dinner party or a get-together with friends. Scheduling time for intimacy means that you make time for it. You just stop everything that you're doing, you put on some nice music, you take a bath, you take a shower, you light the candles, and you just indulge in that pleasure. And I think that we should all at this stage of life be thinking about how we can make time for pleasure. And for me, that means scheduling in my diary, and boy do I love it.