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The benefits of solo pleasure

14 Nov 2023 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker addresses the taboo surrounding female masturbation, sharing a personal story of discovering pleasure with a detachable shower hose and praising a sex toy called the "Cindy" from Hank's. She emphasizes that solo sexual activity is especially important for older women, whether or not they have a partner, as a means to maintain genital health, enjoyment, and self‑love. The speaker calls for open conversation, rejects shame, and encourages women to embrace solo pleasure as a normal, beneficial part of life.

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Let's talk about masturbation. Why not? I think, you know, men do it and everybody knows about that, but for women it's always been a bit taboo to talk about masturbation. I know growing up I wasn't told anything about it, and I just discovered my intimate area and all the pleasure down there by the wonders of a shower hose, a detachable shower hose. These days I use the most wonderful new sex toy that I was given by Hank's called the Cindy I can't rave about it enough. It actually is fabulous. But as an older woman, especially if you don't have a partner and you want to keep that area healthy, active, juicy, then solo pleasure is actually a really important aspect of your life. And we shouldn't be ashamed of it. We shouldn't believe that it's something that we aren't or shouldn't do. I think we need to talk about it and we need to say it's okay, it feels wonderful, and yeah, why not? Love yourself.