The Evolution of Online Dating: A Personal Reflection

In this personal monologue, the speaker reminisces about the early days of online dating roughly 25 years ago, referencing early sites such as Nerve.com and the nascent Plenty of Fish. They describe how dating then required reading detailed profiles and composing thoughtful messages, focusing on textual content rather than images. The speaker expresses fondness for the creativity and depth of those interactions, noting lasting friendships formed during that era. Contrasting this with today’s dating landscape, they criticize the gamified swipe mechanics and image-centric approach, claiming it has removed the fun and meaningful connection they once enjoyed. The monologue ends with an invitation for listeners to share their feelings about this shift.










