Men kill desire by flattering their partner's ego instead of showing genuine curiosity. Asking simple questions like "How was your day?" makes women feel heard and valued, especially crucial for couples struggling with low libido. Daily curiosity builds the intimacy that sustains desire.
instead of let me impress you, it's like, let me, let me know you a little more. Like, tell me about you. I mean, as soon as a man asks me, how was your day? The most simple question in the entire universe, but question I rarely get asked, rarely get asked. And I'm always like, are you not curious? Do you not want to have some idea of who I am? I mean, look, I, I can flatter a man's ego as much as any woman, but after a while, it does rather predictable and frankly, quite boring for me to sit there and just, you know, constantly be feeding some, some man's ego. And I think some of those practical tips are just like, be curious, like ask questions, because women want to feel like they're being heard. And I think often that, as you said, it— for low libido partners who are looking for more, you know, more relational aspects to come out with their partner, Just hearing some simple questions every day, like, guys, just make it a thing that you do every day. How was your day?
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