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The Surprising Thing Men Want to Hear During Sex

14 Mar 2026 · 2 min

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In this monologue, the speaker argues that vocalizing pleasure—through moans, groans, or shouted affirmations—enhances sexual experience for both partners. She explains that sounds amplify internal sensations, provide clear feedback to a partner about what feels good, and release endorphins. She acknowledges that some people are silent due to upbringing or social conditioning (e.g., boarding schools) and may fear making noise. The speaker encourages listeners to overcome these barriers, suggesting that saying things like “Ooh, that feels good” or “Please do more of that” helps partners know they are doing a good job, deepens intimacy, and makes the experience more enjoyable for everyone.

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Ooh, that feels so good. I was thinking about the noises that we make, the moans, the groans, and those people who never make a sound. I've been with people who never make a sound, and you wonder, are they enjoying this? Is it all going off for them? Have they actually had an orgasm? Because sounds are a great way of just, A, amplifying the feelings that you're already feeling inside your body, but also they're an amazing way to share with your partner how much you're enjoying what they are doing to you, how good it feels. Ooh baby, that feels so good! How much do we all love hearing that? Those silent types, yes, I get it. Sometimes maybe if you've been brought up in boarding schools and you just couldn't ever express a noise because you're surrounded by people of your own sex and you were trying to get yourself off and you just needed to be quiet. I get it. It can be hard to learn how to express yourself, but saying, "Ooh, that feels good. Ooh, please do some more of that," is just a great way to tell your partner they're doing a good job, to show your appreciation, and to release all those endorphins that feel so wonderful So scream, shout, moan, do whatever you have to do, but by all means, let your partner know how much you're enjoying being with them.