The Ultimate Guide to Overcoming Friction in the Bedroom: Counting Strokes, Gentle or Hard?

Hard and fast versus sensuous and slow. That's what I want to talk about. Is it possible if you're a guy who is used to going in hard and fast, who really likes to kind of pound a woman, to relearn that behavior and go slowly and be more sensuous? Because one of the things that happens as we get older as women is the vaginal walls get thinner, and therefore all that pounding can actually be quite painful. And Many women, myself included, really, really love it when it's slow, really slow, and it's more of a tease than a pounding. The question is, can you relearn how to have sex with somebody, especially if you're an older guy and you're used to doing stuff using your own hand and maybe gotten used to lots of friction? Can you actually connect with your dick in a different way so that the sex that you have with your partner becomes much more pleasurable for both of you.