Foreplay deserves to be the main event, not just a warm-up. The speaker uses anatomy basics to explain why communication matters: some people want firm clitoral pressure, others light touch. Layering sensations like kissing, licking, and the come-hither finger motion inside the vagina creates intensity.
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I don't think I talk enough about foreplay, do I? And foreplay, especially if you're an older person, is possibly even more important or could just actually be the main act. We don't have to think of foreplay as the stuff that you do before the main act because it in itself is so pleasurable that you can just do that. And many people do, especially at our age. But the one thing I would say is that not everybody is really good at it and Part of the reason for that is, as we know, unless you tell your partner what you like, how are they going to find out? But just a little, a few tips here, and I'm going to use my little beaker here as a demonstration model. So imagine that it's the vulva and that in there is the hole to the vagina. And this up here is the clitoris. Let's just pretend, shall we? Firstly, the way that you massage the clitoris, the way that you lick it, stroke it, or whatever, does vary so much from one person to another. Some people do like a lot of pressure and some people just like it really, really light. But always ask, does this feel good? How do you like it? Because if you don't ask, then you don't know. Secondly, once that starts getting nice and plump and stimulated, you might want to just stick your fingers in there and just kind of do a kind of come hither motion, because that at the same time as you are actually licking that clitoris is really, really, really pleasurable. And if you want to really add to it, then kiss your partner or just whisper in their ear or nibble on their earlobe or just do something else. Stroke their nipples, for example. Those three things combined may actually get your partner off. You never know until you try.
