Three things partners can do: leave the lights on so he can see you, tell him directly what feels good instead of expecting him to guess, and spend more time on foreplay instead of rushing to the finish.
Let's talk about 3 things that men would love you to do in bed but very rarely ask for. And these suggestions have come via The Good Men Project. I love these ideas. Number 1, leave the lights on. I know that's a scary thought, isn't it? If you're a little bit lacking in self-confidence, put something sexy on top. But men love to look at a woman's body, flaws and all. They like to see what's going on. It really turns them on. So leave the lights on. Number 2, honest direction and feedback. Tell them when something feels good and when it doesn't. So if you really enjoy something, just let them know. Say, "Wow, that feels amazing," or, "I really loved it when you did this," or, "Mm, if you could just go a little bit to the left, that would be amazing." But tell them. Nobody is a mind reader. And number 3 is extend foreplay. Don't make it all about a man's climax. I know that Lots of women were brought up to believe that sex is really just about a man's pleasure. No, men love to know that they're giving their woman pleasure, that they're having fun, that they're enjoying themselves. So extend that foreplay. It's going to be better for him, it's going to be better for you, and you're both going to have a great old time. Thanks to The Good Men Project for those suggestions. Have fun!
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