Threesomes

What's the deal with threesomes? So many men that I've met over the years seem to really love the idea of being with two women, but when it comes to making it real, threesomes can be quite challenging. I spent two years having nothing but threesomes with two men, and I have to say it was a hell of a lot of fun, but I wasn't involved with either of them. It literally just was fun. And that was it. But if you're a woman involved with somebody and there's another woman involved and both of you are or aren't bisexual, there's a lot of negotiation that needs to go on, a lot of communication like everything else in relationships, a lot of understanding things that might, that might come up in that scenario, like jealousy for instance, because let's face it, we all can be jealous from time to time. And so if you are thinking about opening up your relationship and involving somebody else, like another woman for instance, it's really important that you consider all the aspects of the relationship, of the, of the whole scenario, and make sure that everybody's really comfortable with what could or may not happen. And frankly, there's always a moment in threesomes I find, especially in the two women thing, where one person just generally feels left out. And if you're not attracted to other women, then you might just be sitting on the sidelines watching something happen, which could or could not be fun depending on how you go about these things. But all I'm saying is that if you are planning on doing something like that, then talk about it and talk about all the aspects of it that might come up for you so that when you're in the situation, it doesn't become awkward, complicated, or frankly, just distressful.