Two people talk about wanting more depth and variety in their relationship beyond what feels sufficient. They negotiate between accepting what they have and the pull toward something richer.
enough. It's just about the fact that you want to do some stuff.
And you want more.
And you want more.
But what you've got is not necessarily not enough.
No, that's right.
It's enough for a certain situation.
Yeah.
But you want to go beyond that situation. And if you have the courage to address that, you know, yeah, you may well find you are pleasantly surprised. By the person you're with having the same fantasies or similar fantasies. Because let's face it, you're with a person probably because you are, you have, you know, your interests align in some way. That may well have been bowling or whatever when you were young, but you know, you might find that you've got the same interests in a slightly more adventurous sex life as well going on. And that's part of your joint fantasies as well, or could become part of it. And, you know, that, that I think is an important, um, an important part of any relationship, that you're honest with each other about fantasies. Then there is the question of what you then do about it. That is a different question altogether.
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