Suzanne NobleHost, Sex Advice for Seniors · Sex, Dating & Relationship Advice for Over 50s

Unlocking the Secrets: Mastering Female Pleasure and Becoming a Great Lover!

4 Apr 2024 · 2 min

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In this monologue, the speaker explains why many men are unaware of the clitoris’s location, describing its anatomy, size variability, and how arousal makes it more visible. She emphasizes that achieving a clitoral orgasm requires constant stimulation, which is difficult during penetrative sex. To address this, she recommends several practical methods: having the woman sit on top and grind to stimulate the clitoris, oral sex with explicit communication about pressure and location, using a bullet vibrator during intercourse (especially for older women who may need stronger vibrations), and encouraging partners to ask for feedback because men cannot read minds. The overall message is that consistent clitoral stimulation is essential for female orgasm in heterosexual relationships, and open communication and appropriate techniques can help achieve it.

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Talking to a friend recently about why is it that so many men don't seem to know where the clitoris is. The clitoris is on the top there, it's this little button there, and sometimes it is quite small and hidden, so that could be one reason why they just can't figure out where it is. Sometimes it's much larger and it protrudes, and when it gets aroused, it gets filled with blood and it does become more evident. The difficulty, of course, is that when you're having penetrative sex It's very difficult to keep that little button constantly stimulated because it's that constant stimulation that's going to provide us with that great clitoral orgasm. So there's a few things that I recommend. One is if a woman is sitting on top and she's grinding against the kind of groin area, then she may be able to stimulate that little button enough to have an orgasm. That's certainly something that's worked for me. The second thing is that you can, for instance, if you're a guy, go down on a woman and providing you're hitting that area in the way they like to be touched. And I do recommend asking, how does it feel? Is it good here? Is it good there? Where do you like it? Guys are not mind readers. Just tell them where it is that feels the best for you. That's another way. I like sitting on a man's face as well, but that's not everybody's thing. And finally, if you're having penetrative sex from behind or in some other ways, you can get a little bullet vibrator, apply it to that little button, and and that's another way to orgasm and works very well, especially if you're an older woman for whom those kind of strong vibrations may be necessary to come. But what you need to realize, guys, in heterosexual relationships, is it's this little button that needs to be constantly stimulated. Constantly, not like this, not like this, but constantly stimulated. That's gonna make us come.