Unveiling the Hidden Depth of Sexual Attraction: Shallow or Deeper than You Think?

I have been thinking about whether I am particularly shallow when it comes to being sexually attracted to someone. We swipe left and right because we make instant snap judgments about the way people look, and perhaps my main fault is that I don't really talk to people about, uh, anything further than that, but Being attracted to someone is also about whether or not you have the same values, the same approaches to life, whether or not you're an optimistic person or a pessimistic person. All sorts of judgments, but they only come after that first attraction. Um, and I think it's all too easy to get, um, stuck on that first attraction and not think about what the person is actually like.