Suzanne Noble advises men to ask women questions about their thoughts, feelings, interests, and goals on a first date. Don't monopolize the conversation. Curiosity about your date makes her feel comfortable.
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What is it that women are looking for in men? That's what men always want to know, is it— what do I have to do to attract women? Do I have to wear better clothes? Do I have to have more money in the bank account? Do I have to have a bigger, faster car? Do I have to have a bigger dick? What is it that I have to have that will attract women? And I'll tell you, the main thing that many women I think would agree with me on is curiosity. Curiosity about life, curiosity about the world, but most specifically, curiosity about them. Most women will respond positively to men that ask them questions, questions that display how they think, how they feel, what they— their view of the world, whether you share common interests, whether you share common goals, whether you share a common outlook about life. God, that makes women just go wet. Not if you have a big dick. Of course, that can be nice too, but not all women are into that. It's all about curiosity. So go on, try not hogging the stage during that first date. Try asking questions about the person that you're meeting and see how they respond. You might even get a second date.