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What’s the reason why you’re not getting that second date? This is what women tell me and what I

21 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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This content was created by Suzanne Noble. This content was uploaded by Suzanne Noble. This is a YouTube video titled "What’s the reason why you’re not getting that second date? This is what women tell me and what I" (created 2025-08-21T11:45:09Z). The excerpt is a single-speaker advice monologue about dating: the speaker explains that women often skip second dates because men talk only about themselves and show no curiosity, leaving women feeling like therapists. The speaker's recommendation is to be curious and ask questions to increase the chance of a second date.

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Talk about the number one reason I hear from women, not just my age, but all ages, of why they often don't go on a second date with a guy they've had a first date with. The guy may have thought it went really well. He thinks, "Yeah, she seems really interested in me. There seemed to be a vibe." He phones up or texts and says, "Yeah, that was great. I really wanna see you again." And either gets that sort of blah response, maybe no response, maybe she ghosts him, What's the reason? Well, what women tell me and what I know myself from lots of experience is that the guy has spent the whole time talking about himself. He hasn't asked me any questions. He doesn't seem to be curious about me at all. He doesn't wanna know anything about me. And I just feel like I'm just sitting there for an hour like a therapist, just nodding away and just waiting for him to finish. And that's never fun. Fun. So if you want that second date, be curious, ask questions, find out about the person that you're with, and you never know, you might get that second date.