A woman wants more sex than her male partner. Most advice assumes men are the ones unsatisfied, but it happens the other way around too. Try leaving a flirty Post-it note or sending a suggestive text, inspired by therapist Esther Perel.
What can you do if you're an older woman and you want more sex than your partner seems to desire? It's not something we hear about very often. Always it's the men writing to me going about their partner, their female partner doesn't seem to desire sex as much as they do, but that's not always the case. Sometimes, as I heard the other night when I did a radio phone-in, it's actually the woman who wants more sex. I think there it is difficult sometimes to bring the subject up, especially if you're not comfortable talking about sex with your partner. But one of the little suggestions that was— that I had that actually came via Esther Perel is leave a little Post-it note with a sexy note on it on the bathroom mirror, on the bedroom pillow, or perhaps if you like texting, you could send your partner a little text, a little sexy text to let you— to let them know that you are up for it and you're looking forward to them getting home. Just a couple of little suggestions there, but I'm open to hearing more from you.
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