Suzanne Noble discusses turning fantasies into reality with partners. Real people rarely match what you imagined: they look different, perform differently, have different abilities. Either accept the gap between fantasy and reality, or keep the fantasy in your head.
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Let's talk about turning fantasies into reality. I suspect that all of us have fantasies, and for many people, probably most, it's just something that stays in your head and you never intend to make it real because the thought of doing that might just be a bit scary, or you just don't know how to do it. But over the course of my lifetime, I have manifested many of my fantasies into reality, and here's what I know. When it stops being a fantasy and there's real people in front of you, it's different. The people that you're with may not be as attractive as the people in your head. They may not be as well endowed as the people in your head. They may not be able to perform like the people in your head were able to. And you just have to accept that now that you're in the real world, things are probably going to be far different than they were when they were just going on between your ears. So if you're not up for actually seeing what happens in real life when you take that fantasy and, and manifest it for real, then my suggestion is keep it in your head.
