Suzanne Noble argues adults should invest time learning sexual techniques beyond penetrative sex. Reading, homework, and understanding partner arousal improves relationships and attraction.
I get it, you want more sex in your life and you wonder why it's not happening, but I want to ask you, have you put in the time and the effort that it takes to really understand what pleases the sex that you're interested in? Have you read some books? Have you done any homework around actually understanding how to give pleasure besides just the stuff that we're all familiar with, which is probably penetrative sex, maybe a bit of oral sex, but But the sexual buffet is so much more expansive than that, and the more you can understand and appreciate how to turn on your partner, the more likely you're gonna be to attract somebody into your life that wants to have sex with you.
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