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Why Many Older Women Lose Interest in Sex (And How to Reignite Desire)

16 Jan 2024 · 2 min

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In this informal advice video, the speaker outlines three primary reasons why older women may lose interest in sex. First, past sexual encounters that were unpleasurable or forgettable can leave them relieved to be done with sex. Second, fatigue from work, caregiving for grandchildren, or caring for a partner can make sex feel like an expendable luxury they choose to withhold. Third, many older women experience a desire‑arousal sequence where they need to feel physically aroused before they develop sexual desire; without stimulation, they simply do not feel horny. The speaker invites viewers to share additional reasons, and concludes with a call to like, follow, and comment on the video.

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Let's talk about why your old lady doesn't want to fuck you anymore. Let's think. Number 1 is because the sex that she's had in the past hasn't been particularly pleasurable, memorable, and frankly, she's just glad to be over it. Number 2 is the fact that she's probably just really tired, exhausted. Maybe she's still working, and maybe she's looking after grandkids as well. Maybe she's looking after you. And sex is just the one thing that she's got the power to decide, and she's decided that she's going to withhold that. I know it sounds harsh, but that's the way it sometimes goes. Number 3, let's think of number 3. Number 3 is that for most older women, we need to be aroused before we feel desire. So If we're feeling aroused, then we're gonna want to have sex. But if you're just going in and not making us feel particularly horny, then yeah, the fact of the matter is that most of us are walking around on the planet without feeling horny most of the time. And it's only really when I'm in bed with somebody and they're doing something nice to me that I think, oh yeah, this is quite nice, feels good, and I want to do it. Otherwise, I'm just happy not to. So those are 3 solid reasons why your old lady might not be having sex with you anymore. You might have a few more of your own. I'm curious to hear. If you like my videos, please like and please follow and comment.