Your Relationship Isn’t Failing Because of Sex

Show me your calendar, show me your to-do list, show me your bank account, and I'll tell you what you value. It's usually kind of surprising. Like, couples will be like, oh, and I'll— and so I'll ask, are you doing a date night every week? Do you spend time together every single day getting to know each other? And people will be like, no, we're too busy, we don't have time for that. And that is— I believe that happily ever after is possible and so worth it, but it's not going to happen by accident. You have to put your energy, your intention, your financial backing on what you really, really want. And so if you really want to have that forever kind of love where you just can't keep your hands off each other late into your 60s, 70s, 80s, whatever, you, you've got to prioritize it. You, you've got to put it on your calendar. You've got to be intentional. And you've got to make it important to you. So