Angel ArditoSex Educator, Relationship Coach

Girl Finds Underwear: Cheating Boyfriend or Secret Fetish? #shorts

4 Aug 2025 · 2 min

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In this YouTube short, a 29‑year‑old woman staying with her 28‑year‑old boyfriend in North Las Vegas discovers two pairs of used women’s underwear hidden in his suitcase. She describes the circumstances of the find, notes that the underwear are different sizes and were tucked in an inner pocket, and expresses confusion about why they would be there on a trip he is taking with her. She outlines two primary hypotheses: that he either cross‑dresses or has a fetish for used underwear, and she explicitly states she does not immediately assume cheating. She seeks advice on how to bring up the issue without sounding accusatory, wonders whether to confront him directly or leave a note with her own underwear, and asks the audience for similar experiences and the best communication approach.

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I, 29, female, found another girl's underwear in my boyfriend's, 28, male, suitcase. I'm staying with my boyfriend in North Las Vegas for the weekend at his hotel. He travels for work and I get to see him every few weeks. This morning while he was at work, I went to look for a t-shirt in his suitcase and found two pairs of women's underwear. There is no reason he should have two pairs of used women's underwear in his suitcase. They were in the inside pocket, tucked into the corner under other clothes, and were clearly hidden. It could be from one girl or two, as they are different sizes. I need to bring this up to him. We have plans for the rest of the weekend and I'm not I'm not sure what the best way to bring it up is. I could also leave a pair of my own in there with a note, but I have no idea how long it would take him to find that. Has anyone been in this situation before? And what do you think the easiest way to bring it up would be without being accusatory right off the bat? Obviously, the first instinct is to wonder if he's cheating, but I would be curious as to why he has those underwear in his suitcase packed on a trip that he's specifically going to go to with you. Like, that doesn't even make sense logically. Like, if I— if personally I mean, I would never cheat on my partner, but personally, if I was a cheater, I wouldn't pack the underwear of the people I cheated with and then take it on a trip with my partner. It's very— I don't know, it's just very odd. Probably one of two things is happening. Either one, he likes to wear women's underwear sometimes, or two, he has a fetish and he likes to buy underwear, like used underwear online, and like smell them. And as long as the only thing you were concerned about is cheating, I might take a deep breath. I don't know that I believe that he's cheating, but who knows.