Angel ArditoSex Educator, Relationship Coach

If he does this, he doesn’t really care about you… #relationship #couples #iykyk #stayspicy #flowers

20 Jan 2025 · 1 min

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If your boyfriend hasn't given you flowers in two years and comes home asking you to comfort him instead of actually bringing flowers, he doesn't really care. Actions matter more than apologies. A partner who wants consolation for his own neglect isn't valuing you.

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If he routinely neglects to romance you, then turns around and expects you to console him over his lack of effort, then he doesn't care about you as much as he should. I'll give you an example. Let's say that he hasn't gotten you flowers in 2 years, but he comes home from work every few months and he goes, babe, I feel so bad. I haven't gotten you flowers in such a long time. Yada, yada, yada. What he's doing is cueing you to console him over his lack of effort. He could have stopped on his way home from work that day to get you flowers instead of coming all the way home to complain about the fact that he doesn't get you flowers. He does not care about you as much as he should.