Red Flags In The Bedroom!! #stayspicy #communicationmatters #educational

Red flag number 1: pressuring or guilt-tripping you into sexual activity with them. This may look like saying, "If you loved me, you would fill in the blank," or, "Come on, I'm so turned on, just do it, just do it for me, come on," or using passive-aggressive behavior toward you if you say no. It can also look like making you feel obligated to engage in sexual activity with them because of something that they did for you, like buying you dinner. The bottom line is that consent given under pressure is not real consent. If someone is trying to manipulate you, they are actively showing you that they do not care about your comfort, and that puts you at risk. This is a huge red flag because people who ignore sexual boundaries are very, very likely to ignore boundaries of all types, whether it's emotional or physical, whether it's laws, rules, or regulations.