Want to know what people see when they meet you?

Are you aware of how little energy you give off when you meet people? When you first meet someone, you think, oh, maybe that person's not attractive. Oh, look at that person. And you sort of write them off, and you give less than what you would normally give to someone you find handsome or cute or pretty or whatever. Do you know what you just did? Do you know what you just eliminated out of your life? You eliminated the possibility of meeting someone meaningful to you that you could fall in love with, that you could change. And it's not that person, it's that person's friend, it's that person's cousin. Remember the good old days when you used to meet people by a person saying, hey, I want to introduce you to a friend of mine, hey, I want to introduce you to my cousin, hey, I want to introduce you to And we've lost touch with the reality. Today we meet people on this thing, you go, look at him, look at her, blah blah blah blah blah blah. But it's never been like that, has it? In the history of mankind, we are community-based, we are social-based people. But today we're blowing people off in an instant. We're not even— we're just upset and we don't give any energy, we don't give any love. We just meet people, hi, how can I do it, can I take your phone number? Yes, what do you need? I was at my physiotherapist, first time I met this woman, nothing. There was absolutely nothing there. I'm not interested, I'm married, but there was nothing there. And why is there nothing there? I remember the good old days, you go to a checkout counter when you buy some food, the cash register, how are you doing? How's it going? You have a nice little conversation, a short little relationship, you go about your day. She had a wonderful time, or he had a wonderful time. I had a wonderful time, wonderful experience. And we don't do that anymore, and we wonder why, or you wonder why when you get home you're alone. No one talks to you, no one talks about you, no one considers you, no one likes you, no one's dating you, and nobody's pinging you or DMing you or anything. It is your fault. It is your fault because did you give energy? Did you smile? Did you give love? Did you give attention? Did you give enthusiasm? What did you do or did not do When you had that chance, when you met everyone today that you met, who did they meet? Did they meet this version of you, or did they meet this version of you? I didn't say anything, but yet I was two different people. It's not about that person, it's about you. Smile to everybody, give love to everybody, be excited to meet everyone. Stop judging people. You don't want to be judged. I don't want to be judged. So why are you judging? You want to find Mr. Right? You want to find Mrs. Right or whatever? Love everyone. Smile to everyone. They may, may, may not be that person, but their friend, their classmate, their colleague, their cousin Someone they met online, they know, they'll introduce you to them, and there it is. But no one could introduce you to anyone if you keep on bringing— Hi, how can I help you? Yes, sit over there. Come on, give me a break. Be you. Be the version of you that exists the moment after he slides that ring on your finger. Be that version of you the moment after she tells you back that she loves you too. How excited are you? How thrilled are you? How powerful are you? Energized. That's who you should be and how you should be every day, and then the world will fall in love with you. I'm Thomas Anglero. Until next time.