Attachment parenting is often reduced to infant bonding like breastfeeding and co-sleeping, but attachment is actually lifelong. John Bowlby's research shows it spans from cradle to grave, and attachment-based approaches work in marriage counseling too.
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One of the greatest misperceptions about parenting from an attachment perspective is that attachment is only about baby bonding practices like breastfeeding or wearing your baby, or maybe even sharing a family bed. Now don't get me wrong, these can be wonderful practices, especially since babies are mainly able to bond through physical closeness. But a lot of parents come to me and they say they did attachment parenting in the past tense, and they wonder what to do. Now, I always smile because I know, like the creator of attachment science, John Bowlby said, that attachment is a cradle to the grave phenomenon. It's never past tense. In fact, I'm also a marriage counselor who works exclusively with parents. And I can tell you that two of the most popular and effective couples counseling approaches are attachment based approaches.