In this Business Blast podcast episode, host Tyler Wagner introduces Annette Adamska, founder of Back Up Your Life and Back Up Your Business, and a virtual project manager for creative entrepreneurs and CEOs. After a brief promotion for Anchor, the conversation covers several personal and professional insights. Annette shares a pivotal 2015 story about her mother’s catastrophic accident, which taught her that while events are uncontrollable, one’s response is not, highlighting the importance of perspective and prioritizing what truly matters. She emphasizes the value of focusing on one’s strengths and "zone of genius" rather than attempting to be well‑rounded, advocating for delegating tasks to others who excel in those areas. Her core business advice is to stop making excuses and simply act, asking "what’s the worst that could happen?" She advises her younger self to define personal success and avoid comparison. Regarding happiness, she cites strong boundaries and supportive friendships as essential. Annette’s favorite book is The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz, with the key takeaway to not take anything personally. Her favorite quote, from Jen Sincero, reinforces taking responsibility for one’s own words and actions, not for others’ reactions. The episode concludes with Annette’s contact information: annetteadamska.com and her social media handles on Instagram and LinkedIn.
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Thank you for listening to the Business Blast podcast. So for all my listeners out there that have been wanting to do your own podcast, I'd like to introduce to you Anchor. Anchor is a one-stop shop for recording, hosting, distributing, and monetizing your podcast. So before I found Anchor, I had never actually done a podcast because all the research that I had gathered made it seem very complex. Then I found Anchor, and Anchor makes podcasting extremely simple. So if you want to do your own podcast, go to anchor.fm/start. I can't wait to hear your podcast. All right everyone, welcome back to another episode of the Business Blast podcast. I'm your host Tyler Wagner. Today I have Annette Adamska with us. She serves creative entrepreneurs and CEOs as a strategic partner and virtual project manager. She also is the founder of Back Up Your Life and Back Up Your Business. So welcome to the show.
Thanks so much for having me.
Of course, grateful to have you on. So the first one we got for you today is what is the best story from your life that has an underlying valuable message?
Well, I have to say one of the biggest events of my life was in 2015. My mom had a catastrophic accident while traveling overseas that resulted in quadriplegia, and she died a few months after that. And through that situation, I learned that no matter how hard you might try, you cannot control what happens to you. You can only control your response to it. And it also showed me the value of perspective and truly understanding what my priorities are.
And what is the most valuable piece of information we should know that's within your expertise or industry?
I think there's this notion of well-roundedness or that we should try to do it all. And I think it's a disservice to, to all of us, really. I think really understanding your strengths and where your zone of genius lies, then to find and work with others to support you in those other areas. For example, I excel at helping people distill their ideas and see how they align with their mission, vision, and values. And then help create the plan so that they can achieve their goals. And I love creating the plan, and some people, it's just a harder piece for them. And there are other people that can do incredible things that I should never even try to do.
And, uh, I agree. Uh, and what is your best piece of overall business advice? So not necessarily industry specific.
Yeah, I think the biggest thing is just to stop getting in your own way and making excuses and just do it. Like, what's the worst thing that can actually happen?
And if you could give your younger self one piece of advice, what would that be?
I think it would be that you get to just define what success looks like for yourself and stop comparing.
And then kind of going down a little bit of a different path, in your opinion, what is the key to happiness?
I think the key to happiness is strong boundaries and amazing friends.
And what is the best book that you've read and what was the number one thing you learned from that?
I really love The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz and really just the don't take anything personally because in most cases it's pretty much always about the other person. It has nothing to do about you.
And what is your favorite quote and why?
I love this, the Jen Sincero quote: You are responsible for what you say and do. You are not responsible for whether or not people freak out about it.
I love that. Well, listen, thank you so much for coming on. The last one I got for you before we let you go is where can our audience best find you online?
Yes, people can find me at annetteadamska.com. That's A-N-N-E-T-T-E, the name Adam, A-D-A-M, and the musical genre ska, dot com. And also the same handle on Instagram, or if you'd love to connect on LinkedIn.
