Mark Monchek argues that resilience isn't bouncing back to how things were. True resilience means letting change transform you, because the world doesn't return to the past. Embrace change and it strengthens you.
Chapters
is, you know, which is a whole nother issue. But the whole point here is you have to be ready for change. And change is really part of life, right? So the idea that we think about resilience is that you're resilient and you bounce back to the way things were is actually not the right way to think about change. Change should actually make you a better, stronger person. And actually, you should be changed by change. Not wanting to go with the flow of the change and wanting to go back to where you were before the change happened, because that's actually not the way the world works.