3 Secrets To Unleash Your Confidence

You're about to learn the three secrets to unlocking confidence. And if you're watching this video, I bet you're in a place where you're feeling stuck right now. You're not feeling confident. What's the opposite of confidence? Well, it's feeling shy, held back, inhibited, full of self doubt, full of self criticism. And what does that stuff do that stops you from being able to put yourself out there in the world in the way that you want? Being able to make friends, being able to be involved in a social network, being able to feel like people care about you and you matter. It's probably stopping you in the area of dating and relationships. That's the biggest place where confidence gets us. And even if you are in a relationship, you're probably in a place where you're feeling pretty insecure and jealous and not sure why the person's with you and they might leave you. So if we're lacking confidence, it's hard to feel satisfied in any area of our lives. When I work with men, they'll say, well, something needs to shift. And then I'll feel confident. It's very external focus. It's like, well, if I earn more money, then I'll feel confident. If I had my hair back, then I'd feel more confident. If I had a better job, then I'd feel more confident. Or my favorite, if I had a super hot girlfriend, then I'd feel confident. But this is putting the cart before the horse. It's not an external game. Confidence, as we all know on some deep level, is an internal game. That those things, the things you get and the response you get from people is reflection of how you feel about yourself. Confidence is an internal game. It's about taking a shift. And that's what these three things are about that I'm going to share with you in a moment. That's about how do we start to make that internal shift and how do we make that internal shift? Even if we've had experiences in our life that tell us that people don't like us or we're not good enough and all that stuff, you're going to learn exactly how to break through that soon. But think about this. What if you can make some shift inside of yourself, some internal reprogramming of your own mind where you would have more confidence naturally, that you'd be able to go start a conversation with anyone that you want. You know, there's a group of people and you're interested in them, you just walk over them and start a conversation. What if similarly you see an attractive, young, beautiful woman that's reading an interesting book so she looks smart and she's sitting in a coffee shop? What if you had the confidence to say, you know what, I could go talk to her and then you did it. What if you knew that if you were alone in the city or if you could just go out in your own city, you could go out that night by yourself and feel comfortable and confident and be able to start conversations with people and meet women and maybe take someone home? You know, what if you knew that you could walk out to a bookstore and meet people? What if you knew that you could be the hub of your social network and be able to start connecting with people in a way that you felt like people really wanted to be with you for who you were? You know, what if you could overcome all these fears of rejection and all the self doubt? What if you could blast through that inner critic? What if you could do all these things to unleash your confidence? Well, that's what I want to share with you now is you could do all of these things if you master these three secrets to unlocking your confidence. So without further ado, here are the three secrets. The first one, the first thing that you absolutely have to change, you have to change how you see yourself. That means you have to have a change of self perception. Another way of saying that is change of self concept. These are all ways of saying the same thing, change how you see yourself. Because if you're stuck in shyness, I can guarantee you one thing that you're seeing yourself very negatively and very critically and you don't have much love and acceptance for yourself. So the first thing that you have to shift is this self perception. And I get a lot into this, into the free book that you just got called called 5 Steps to Unleash youh Inner Confidence. We talk about your story. You're going to go way in depth and to learn how to shift this story. So I'm going to share one tip with you now. An action step that you can do to take action in this area. As I said before, not only is it going to be theory, but it's going to be action so you can internalize this in your body. So one thing that you can do today to start shifting how you see yourself is to take control of your self talk. And first of all, some guys, they don't even know what this means. They're like, take it self talk. What is that? That is what it is that you frequently and consistently Repeat to yourself in your mind. Now some people have heard this before and they've heard of affirmations and positive thinking. And that stuff is tricky and it might not work for you, but there's way more systematic ways to do that. But one I'm going to share with you right now is to get a sheet of paper and just draw a line down the middle of it. And on the left side, the write out list out all the critical things that you're saying to yourself about a certain situation. I'm awkward, I didn't know what to say, that sounded stupid. I'm weird, they don't like me. You list all those things out on the left and then you go to the right side of the sheet and you challenge each one of them. You challenge it with more compassion, more curiosity, more patience, more empathy, whatever it is that you really need. You know, you challenge it in a way where, as if you were talking to a good friend, if a good friend came to you and said, hey, I'm awkward, they didn't like me, I'm a loser, you wouldn't say, yeah, it's true, you suck. I mean, hopefully not, you wouldn't be friends for long if you did. So challenge it in that same way, write out more positive, realistic ways of looking at the situation. That's the first tip for how to implement changing your self concept. The second thing that you have to change, the second secret to unlocking your your confidence is you must change the way that you see other people. Because the way that we see other people when we're shy is very distorted. We view people as highly critical, highly judgmental, immediately quick to reject us. And not just a polite rejection, but a harsh, thorough, complete aversion and disdain for us as a person. You know what I'm talking about. If you were to go talk to someone and say, hey, how's it going? They'd say, get away from me, you monster. You know, either they say that or they think it. That's what we imagine they're thinking. So we have to change the way that we see others. And one simple way to start doing that now is to use a technique that I call assume approval. So what this is is you think about how am I when I'm around people that I know approve of me. You know, if you're around your dog and you know your dog is going to love you because hey, dogs love you no matter what. You're around your family or you're around your best friend from middle school or high school where you're just making jokes and being stupid. And you know on a deep level that that person loves and accepts you and approves of you. And if you can take that same attitude and energy when you go interact with someone, I call this assuming approval. You enter into the interaction and you act as if you already assume they're going to like you. So you assume familiarity, friendliness. You say, hey, how's it going, man? You pat him on the back. You act in a way that you would with a good friend. You assume that approval and your results will start to shift and you'll start to see that people respond in kind. And the third thing, the third secret to unlocking your confidence, the third thing you must shift is you must take new action. You know, all of these things, we can get theories in our head, we can change the way we think, we can change, try to change the way we see people. But until you really start taking action and, and try something new and get a different result, things don't change. It's just, I wish there was a way that we could somehow magically shift it, but it doesn't happen. We have to be willing to try something new. And only then by taking action again and again can you start to see, you know what, the stuff I was telling myself, maybe that's not quite true. Maybe there is a way out of this. Maybe people can like me. In fact, again and again, when I've been working with guys, the shift doesn't happen until they take action. So those are the three things and I want you to do is I want you to implement these things. Oh, let me give you a tip on how to take action today. To take action today, what I'd like you to do is go to a busy street where a lot of people are walking. Pedestrian area street, a downtown street, a place with a lot of shops, a mall, it doesn't matter. There's a lot of people walking. And I want you to walk down a side of the sidewalk, upright in your body, walking strongly and confidently as much as you can muster, and make eye contact with people and say hi to as many people as you can shoot for like 20. So some of them might be absorbed in their own thing, their headphones or whatever. But anyone who's walking by, make sure a little ways away, you say, hey, how's it going? And if they look up at you, you just smile, you give a nod, you say hi, you do something that indicates, how's it going? I'm greeting you. So all you're doing is you're walking down the street and you're greeting 20 people. Now, if you're really anxious about doing this, that's a good thing. There's this whole process of exposure which I can't get into right now. But if you do the things that scare you consistently, they stop scaring you. So take action today by walking down the street. I call this experiment friendly greetings. And all these things are experiments. So if these things get you going and help you learn to shift your confidence, then I want to say you need to take it one step deeper. Because this is. I mean, I can only share a little bit in this short video here, but I share hours of this stuff. 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