A short coaching clip by Dr. Aziz teaching a simple confidence 'hack' for meeting strangers: instead of memorizing lines or surface behaviors, shift your internal mindset to believe your presence adds value. He encourages reflecting on three reasons your presence benefits others so you approach with different body language and energy, producing better social results.
You don't need the perfect line when it comes to approaching people. You just need this one shift in your body language and in your energy. And it's not, oh, stand up tall and do these 17 things with your face and your eyes and your hands. It's way too much to remember. The shift comes from within when you approach them, knowing that your presence adds value. So the question I have for you to reflect on before you approach someone socially, for a date in a workplace context, what are three reasons why my presence automatically adds value? Why someone would be lucky to talk with me. And you want to become really connected with that, that you want to really get that in your core. And when you do, you move differently and you approach people in a completely different way. That creates very different results in your life.
