Confidence Secret How To Have Unlimited Motivation

How's your level of motivation? Do you feel like you're drawn towards what you want and you're just drawn to get out there and build your confidence and have those conversations and keep growing and growing? Or does it feel kind of like effort, like you kind of have to get yourself to do it, and a lot of the time you're like, oh, man, I don't feel like doing it. And you kind of get stuck in that place and not having that motivation. Well, if you want to learn how to have an unlimited source, like a beacon of energy that's just emitting this energy that's driving you towards what you want, this endless source of motivation, then stick with me because you're going to learn how to do that in today's episode. Welcome to another episode of the Art of Extraordinary Confidence. I'm your host, Dr. Aziz, and this is the show for you if you want to 10x your confidence in every area of life that matters to you. Sales, speaking, dating, relationships, your career, your finances, your general social life. All of that stuff is covered in this show. And today we're going to be looking at an endless source of motivation. How to keep getting out there and going after what you want. Whether it's building up that confidence or having those sales conversations or growing your business or finding that person, that love of your life. Like, we have to keep putting ourselves out there. And what I find often happens the biggest obstacle in the people that I work with in groups and one on one, that stops them from doing that. Not intelligence. It's not their skill. It's not their. It's not even their desire. It's their motivation. So what happens is there's kind of two sources of motivation. There's what's called away from motivation. I want to get away from something, and then there's towards. I want to go towards something. And here's how it works. Usually when someone decides they're going to, like, maybe you decide, like, I'm going to work on my confidence. I'm going to. To get better at this. I'm going to look up these videos on YouTube. Oh, this guy. Okay, watch this here. I'm going to get better at my confidence. What's happening there usually is we're being driven away from something that we don't like. That's usually how change starts. It's like, I cannot. For me, way back when, I'm sure you might have heard my story, I was like, just really kind of held back in my life, and it was getting worse and worse. And Worse. And the breaking point was like, another rejection from another woman. And it was this moment of like, I gotta do something. And that would be called driven by desperation. Driven by desperation. So that's one source of motivation, right? It's like, I'm gonna figure this out because I gotta get away from this pain. And that is what often starts. People, they. I gotta figure out this. I have no friends, or, man, my finances are terrible, or I'm doing a job that I hate, or my business is struggling. Oh, my God, I gotta figure this out. How am I gonna make more money or whatever it is? So there's this drive to figure it out or, oh, my God, I've had, like, 10, you know, failed sales conversations. I got to figure this out. And that's when motivation is high, right? Because we're driven by desperation. Got to get out of this pain. And so what that will do is that will drive you forward for a little while. And then what happens as you get better and you kind of start to progress a little bit? You get back to the comfort zone, right? So let's say, you know, a certain amount of income, let's say 10,000 coming in a month for your business is the comfort zone. And then something happens. And all of a sudden it goes 6,000, 5,000. You have a month where it's like 4,000, and your alarm bells are going off. You're like, holy shit, how am I going to do this? So then you kick into high gear, you figure it out, you improve your sales through your systems, whatever it is, and now you get back up to 8,000, 9,000, 10,000, and you're like, phew, that was a lot of work. Okay, everything's good. And then what happens is someone's like, well, you want to grow your business to 20,000. You want to double it? And you're like, nah, it's a lot of work. I don't know, right? And so what happens is our motivation kind of dwindles when we're not being driven by desperation. It dwindles unless we know the secret, which I'm going to share with you right now. Aren't you glad you're watching this video with me this fine morning or whatever it is for you? So we get that motivation. We get going. What we have to do is, as we start getting close to the comfort zone, we have to realize that this is how we're going to work. As soon as we get out of discomfort, we're going to want to settle down a little bit and take it easy. Then what we want to do is we want to say, you know what, what's going to drive me forward, beyond my comfort zone? And you can't use away from motivation for that. You have to use towards motivation. You have to create what's called a compelling future. You have to imagine in your mind what would excite me. What would get me up in the morning being like, yes, dude, it's awesome to be alive. What would be something that I could experience where as it was happening, I'd be like, holy shit, I can't believe this is happening. Life is amazing, right? And this could be in any area. This could be in your physical health, like certain body or physique, like, wow, if I could run a marathon, like, holy crap, that would be amazing. That would show to me that I'm an elite athlete, because that's what that means for you. Or maybe for me, a compelling motivator was like, wow. I had this vision of, I want to wake up next to a woman in these beautiful white sheets and the sun shining through the window. We just had a great night together, and we're talking and we're laughing, and I love her and she loves me. That was my compelling future. I wanted that so bad. And I have that. We have white sheets and the sun shines in through the window, and I love my wife. And it's. And it's incredible. So we can get those things. But that's what excites us. That's what drives us. And it's the same thing for your financial whatever. The thing is, you want to create that compelling future because that's going to give you juice, too. And so you want to not only create it, think about it, but you want to make it vivid and bright. In fact, just pick one area right now that you're building your confidence for. Maybe it's to increase your sales conversions and so you can earn more money. Maybe it's to find a partner. Maybe you want to date and get in relationships. Maybe you want to have a better social life. Maybe you want a great group of friends. Whatever. You're watching this video for your top. Maybe you want to do all three. That's great. You're in the right place. But the top one, the first one that comes to mind, pick that right now and then think about that for a second. What would be really exciting? What would be amazing for me to experience? Maybe you could even close your eyes for a second and imagine it. Can you see it? Can you make it vivid and bright in your mind? What would it look like? Can you make a little movie of it playing out? Can you see the other person's face? Can you see the money in your bank account? Can you see what you'd be doing with that freedom that you have from that money or whatever it is that you really want? Can you see it and then make it vivid and brighter and bigger in your mind's eye and add in other things, like can you hear what other people would be saying? Or can you hear the breeze and feel the warmth of the sun on your arm? Because you're in Hawaii, because you have this business setup so where you can take a vacation, really, you want to create that compelling future. And the more you do that, the more you bring yourself into it, the more you find this compelling source of motivation. Like, wow, that would be amazing. And I actually have this on my phone. I created this really long document called My Compelling Future. And it goes through every different area that's important to me. My business life, my finances life, my relationship with my wife, relationship with kid, kids on the way, number two, all these things, right? So my free time, my social life. I really wanted to create what is a compelling future. And then you have this motivation. So, you know when my alarm goes off and my alarm goes off just crazy early because I work in the morning before my kid gets up, it goes off at 3:40am My alarm goes off more days than. I'm not gonna lie. There's some days where it goes off and I'm like. Just snooze five times. So I'm human, right? But more days than not, especially when I'm like, this morning, I woke up, like, I'm gonna record a bunch of videos. I get up and there's like, this. I want to go back. I'm like, no, wait, I'm gonna record these videos. I'm gonna do this. Yeah, right? And you just. There's this. Yeah. Feeling that drives you. So you can create that when your future is compelling. So homework, do that. Create your compelling future. And if you want to know how to go way more in depth than this, like, really detailed how to create the compelling future, how to visualize it and make it real for you, and then how to remove, like, the million obstacles that are going to come up in your Life. Some external 95% internal. How to break through all those. How to destroy and obliterate your fear of rejection and failure and just massively move forward faster than you can believe possible. Check out my peak performance program, Confidence Unleashed, which is all about how to unlock that peak performance in yourself so you can move forward faster in your life and it is the top quality stuff. It is the best of the best. From working with people on this stuff for years, what's been most effective, I mean is life changing. So check out that program now. You can click to the side and take a look at that and leave your comments below. Let me know what you're Write something about your compelling future. I mean that would be amazing. The more you share it, the more you make it real and the more you're drawn to it. So go ahead and share that with on the comments below. Share that with people in your life. Share that with people that you're close to who are going to support you and really start moving towards that in your life and you'll find that continual source of motivation. Also check out other episodes the show and until we speak again, may you have the courage to be who you are and to know on a deep level that you're awesome. I'll talk to you soon.