He said "just be yourself." I had nothing.

I'm walking into this party with a friend of mine. His name is Ryan. And Ryan was so confident and so comfortable in his own skin. And he already had a girlfriend and I never had had a girlfriend at that point in my life. And he was going to this party and I knew he was going to talk to all the women there. And I was like, Ryan, I— you know, normally I would not share anything, by the way, I would hide all of my insecurities. But there was a moment of desperation. I'm so anxious walking into this party. And I said, like, Ryan, What? How are you so confident? You have any advice? He looked at me, he said, Aziz, you just got to be yourself, man. And then we walked in and I was like, Ryan, you gave me nothing.