How To Be Confident Every Day!

Do you want to have confidence every day? Like consistent confidence, not that roller coaster where your confidence goes up and then it goes down, up and down. Do you want to feel confident every single day? Do you want to wake up confident? Well, that's what you're going to find out how to do in this video. And yes, that would be fantastic if somehow you could just make that happen and not have to do anything. However, no human is like that. The secret is you got to take control. And I'm going to teach you exactly how to do that in this video. And if you're enjoying these videos, make sure you hit the subscribe down below and get the little bell on for notifications. And if you want to go further within these trainings, I have a wealth of resources at my website. You can go to socialconfidencecenter.com click down below in the description to get that and you will get access to my eBook, Five Steps to Unleash youh Inner Confidence. And that will help you go way further with this stuff because it's very targeted. You'll learn step by step exactly what I do. And I send follow up videos and a ton of training. Absolutely. For free for you to skyrocket your confidence. So go there to get that now and let's talk about how you can have confidence every single day. So the issue is we still think that confidence is outside of our control. Often we think of it like the weather. So you wake up and you're like, is it a sunny day? Is it warm? Is it raining? Is it snowing? I don't know. And then if it's a warm day, then great. And if it's a snowing day, it's like, ugh. And that's how we are with our confidence. We wake up and we're like, how am I, how's today gonna go? Am I gonna feel good today or am I gonna feel bad today? And we don't realize, it's like we choose, we steer the ship. There's a few things I wanna share with you in this video for you to start getting control of that shit better. Okay? So the first one is what is the immediate thought process when you first start waking up? The moment you wake up, what do you focus on? Now? For some people it maybe is intentional. Most people it is not. It's like the mind just like starts running. It's like a horse. And we're just like in the carriage behind, like wherever you're gonna take me. So you wake up and your mind's like I didn't get enough sleep. I don't like John. And you're thinking about a work problem. John did this to me. And then, oh, I got this thing. I gotta get the car to the mechanic. Maybe you're going through your to do list, right? Or maybe you don't even let your own thought process go. You grab your cell phone and you put that in your face and you're like, what does the news tell me? What does social media tell me to think about today? That's a major problem. If you want confidence, you got to get control in the morning. I'm not going to tell you exactly what to say to yourself, what to focus on. That's for you to figure out. But I will say that a question that can serve you in finding what that is for you is this to create an extraordinary life of confidence, to be your most confident self, to do the epic shit that you know you're here to do in this life, to live fully, to hold nothing back, to feel fully alive, engaged, happy, productive, confident in yourself and so forth. What would you need to focus on the moment you woke up? Because you already know the answer's already inside you, isn't it? So what is it for you? Couple things for me, I used to start with a lot of conscious stuff. And I realized what I miss out on is my dreams. And I love my dreams. So what I do is the moment I wake up, I say, what was I dreaming? And I focus on that. I give it about four or five minutes. I set a timer on my watch. This isn't a snooze where I'm just like. And fall back asleep. Like, I actually move my body a little bit, get up a little bit so I'm actually awake. And then I sit, I give my about maybe three to five minutes of just really focusing on the dreams because those are amazing and there's so much good stuff in there. And you can go longer on this. I used to before I had kids. And I have a dream journal and focus on lucid dreaming and all this stuff. But life is more full right now for me. But so it could be dreams. The second thing I focus on is gratitude, right? Like, what am I grateful for there? It's so easy to go into a negative track and what I don't like and what I'm scared of and. And what's hard for all of us, right? This isn't how long you've been doing this. You gotta train yourself. So I focus on, what is it I'm grateful for. And then the third thing is I read my confidence creed. My confidence creed, something I created for myself. It's very personalized, and it's like, what is gonna fire me up for today? Would you like to hear my confidence creed? I'll assume that's a yes. So I'm gonna read it to you. And remember, this is very personal for me. So this might fire you up and it might not. But the key takeaway here is you're consciously creating something. It's short, just a couple paragraphs, and it fires me up, it gets me aligned, it gets me centered, it gets me strong, gets me connected, and I feel ready to go. So here's what it is. Today, I will live with extraordinary confidence. I will believe in myself and the beautiful life I am creating. I see all stories in doubt for what they are, feeble attempts to prevent me from taking action. To live my full potential and follow the path of divine guidance. I banish tms, which is mind, body, pain. If you know anything about my story, I struggle with for many years, I banish tms. In the specter of fear and illusion, of weakness it creates. I stand tall, look everyone in the eye and move with power, purpose, strength and confidence. I remember who I am and what I am here to do. I am a leader. I am a warrior. I am an athlete. I am a servant of God. God, thank you for this gift of life. Thank you for this body. Thank you for my family. Thank you for my work. May I have your guidance, divine strength and wisdom to carry out my mission and help my brothers and sisters on this earth. So that's my confidence Creed. And it gets me fired up. And I read it in several ways. Sometimes I'm sitting on the toilet whispering it to myself when the kids and wife are asleep in the bed right next to our bedroom, next to our bathroom. Like confidence, greed, right? And sometimes I read it full and loud, just like I did right there. But the key is not just to take it in passively, but to read it, to engage with it, to declare it. I call this part of my daily declarations, and I have several others as well. But my daily declarations, I'm declaring this. I'm choosing this. So what are you doing to create confidence every day? You can follow my routine exactly here and come up with your own confidence Creed. You know, what is your focus on when you first wake up? And what's something you're going to read out loud to yourself that you create that's to going. Going to fire you up. And after a month or whatever you need to change it. That's great. Come up with something new. As long as it's activating power in you, it's energizing you, it's guiding your focus for that day. It's things that you want to remember, remind yourself of. Use that and then there's no stopping you. You will be so much more confident on the days that you do this and the days that you don't. So share down below anything you're learning. What are you going to put in your confidence, Creed? What are you going to focus on when you first wake up? And I can't wait to hear those comments and share with you in that way. And remember to get yourself that ebook for free called 5 Steps to Unleash youh Inner Confidence. Just click down below to SocialConfidenceCenter.com and I can't wait to join with you in that ongoing growth because these videos are great. But if you really want to master this, you've got to decide and immerse yourself in those materials. And that's why I'm providing them for free. So check that out. And until we speak again, may you have the courage to be who you are and to know on a deep level that you're awesome. Sam.