Dr. Aziz delivers a short motivational YouTube talk about increasing confidence by letting go of unfulfilling jobs, relationships, or long-standing habits. Using a prop (a fake bush) he demonstrates that you must release what you’re clinging to in order to reach something better, invites viewers to make concrete decisions and share them in the comments, and offers a free eBook ("5 Steps to Unleash Your Inner Confidence") via SocialConfidenceCenter.com as support.
Hey, Dr. Aziz here. And I want to show you something really interesting about confidence and about what you need to do to radically increase your confidence using this prop. This is a fake bush, but imagine this is where you are right now. This is the relationship that you're in, or this is the job that you're in, or this is something that you're holding onto that's not great. And then maybe you got into it when your confidence was a little bit lower, you didn't think as much of yourself, and it's not working for you anymore. You know, it's not working because you hate going to that job. You know, it's not working because you hate interacting with your boss. You know, it's not working because you don't really find you're not really that into your partner anymore, whatever it is, but you're holding on. Or maybe this is the way you've done something for a long time. You've always, like, dated in this way. You've always, you know, avoided conversations. So you're done with this. But guess what? In order to go from this to this over here, what do you got to do? What did I just do to go from that bush to this fake bush? I let go. And that's the thing that most people don't want to do. They don't want to let go of where they are, even though where they are sucks and it doesn't work for them, or they don't want to let go, because what happens in between? Here, come back with me. Let me show you again one more time. Watch this. So here I am, that old job, that old bush, whatever it is, I don't want to be here, But I can't. I can't reach. I can't reach that other one. I want to get there by holding on to this. But what happens? I have to let go of that. And now I'm floating in space, and it's all not figured out. Maybe you don't have everything. Maybe you're not now you're not in a relationship anymore. Or maybe you don't have that job yet, or maybe you don't even know exactly what career you're moving into now. Whatever it is, you're like, ah, I don't know what's happening. I don't know what's happening. And then eventually you get to that new place and it's better. It's right for you. A great quote that summarizes this is you have to let go of what's good in order to go to what's great or you got to let go of what's not working to get to what's working. So what in your life are you clinging to? Are you holding onto, wishing and hoping it's going to somehow magically get better? And what are you going to do? When are you going to let go of it? And what is that for you? Like, really think about this in this moment? Make some key decisions as you watch this video. So this is not just some passive entertainment that we're doing. This is like transformational thinking that you can do and actions that you can take right after watching this video. And if you want to knock it up a notch, share in the comments below. What is it going to be? Claim what you're going to do. And if you want a boost, if you want support in doing that, go to SocialConfidenceCenter.com and get my eBook 5 Steps to Unleash youh Inner Confidence. Because you're going to need those five steps to make the kind of change that we're talking about. You can click down below in the description. There's a link to get that for free. My gift to you. I want you to make these changes. I want you to have the life that you want and confidence is the master skill that's going to get you there.
