Dr. Aziz shares one technique for looking confident instantly: greet people warmly when you arrive and say a genuine goodbye when you leave. Ask names, mention where you're from, and close with something like "It was nice chatting with you." It signals confidence and makes people want to connect with you.
Here is one trick that makes you appear way more confident to everyone around. It absolutely works. It might sound so simple that when you hear it, roll your eyes, but do it and you'll be amazed what effect it has for you in your life. What is it? It is a warm greeting and a warm goodbye. And this is what that looks like when you walk into a situation, a lot of people are waiting for someone to give them permission to say hi. Waiting to talk to somebody, move towards somebody, Be the warm presence that invites people in. Hey, what's your name? What are you doing here? Here? I'm from this met, so and so. I can't do that. I'm. Yes, you can. You can just start doing it. And everyone's like, oh, he's confident. She seems like she knows what she's doing. Similarly, ask someone a question at work, or you have a little chat with somebody, instead of just turning and walking away, you say, hey, it was nice chatting with you. Oh, thank you so much for sharing. I'll see you in a little bit. Or have a great weekend. Little things like that that express warmth. It takes one second and people see you as radically more confident and desirable to connect with.
