The Path To Ever-Increasing Confidence

What would your life be like if every single day your confidence was increasing? And so after the end of the week it was even higher. At the end of each month it was just continually going up. Maybe it was like, like a stock that was just continually rising. What would your life be like? And eventually your confidence would double and then it would triple and it would just keep increasing no matter what, in all the areas that matter to you. For your dating life, for your social life, for your business life. What would that bring into your world if you could just keep having more and more confidence? I'm going to teach you exactly how to do that in today's episode, which is going to be all about the path to ever increasing confidence. Welcome to another episode of the Art of Extraordinary Confidence. I'm your host, Dr. Aziz, best selling author and the founder of of the center for Social Confidence. And today we're going to look at the path to ever increasing confidence. And this is actually a real thing. This is not hype. And you're going to see by the end of this video that you actually can do this. And there's one simple thing that's going to help you stay on that path. And here's what it is. So let me use a dating analogy. Although this can apply to your business life and your sales life and your social life. Any area that you want more confidence. And I'll explain it in those ways too. But I'm gonna start with a dating analogy. Here's what it is. So you, let's say you're single and you wanna meet someone and you see her across the way, or you're out in a park and you see her, or you're in a store and you see her, or you're at a friend's party and you see a woman that you're drawn to in some way. She strikes you as beautiful or intriguing or something about her. What do you do that's gonna determine which path you're on? So you have a million choices, but there's two big ones, right? Do you walk up and talk to her or do you not now walking up and talking to her and turning around and not or going to grab another drink or whatever it is you do instead. Those are two different paths. Which one's the path of confidence? The one that involves taking the risk. In this case, the risk is to go talk to her because you don't know how it's going to go. There's uncertainty. She might not like you, she might have a boyfriend, whatever. So there's a Risk. Right. Interesting. So then let's say you take the path of taking the risk, and you go talk to her. And let's say you, in that moment, you have another choice, though, right? So you go down that path, and then all of a sudden, well, in that conversation, you can say, you can press the edge a little bit. You can make some jokes, you can tease her, you can flirt her, you can say something a little edgy or spontaneous. You can do something a little random. You can grab her hand to go dance. Or you can play it safe. You can say, so where are you from? What do you do? Neat, right? And when you do that, which one's the path of confidence being you, being expressive, being edgy, having fun or playing it safe? That's right, the one with the risk. Hmm. And then when you're talking to her, at the end of that conversation, you have another choice. You could say, well, it's been great talking with you. I would love. And I gotta get back to my friend, or I need to go back to this. I would love to hang out with you again. What's your number? What's your name on Facebook? We should grab lunch or get some coffee. Or you can say, well, see you later and run away, which I've done a lot of. Right. And again, path of confidence would be, which one? Taking the risk. Hmm. There's a trend starting to form here, and we can make that exact same chain. In your business, are you reaching out to more potential customers, prospects? Are you inviting them into conversations or whatever your process is to serve people and help people in your business, are you reaching out to other companies and partners and strategic alliances? And then when you reach out to them, are you being bold and asking them questions? Are you looking for ways you can help their business? Are you in that conversation asking for the sale or asking to work together, making a case for it? Each of those things is. Again, there's the path that involves taking that risk or just saying no. Okay, well, it's great talking to you. We'll network again in a year. I'm keeping the relationship going, but you're not, because you're not really in there for what you know, what you really want to do, which is to work together. Right? So. And then you can use this in a lot of different. Your career too. How much you speak up, how much you share, how much you challenge, how much you go for leadership, everything. And they're all the same. And the path to confidence, to ever increasing confidence, is taking those risks. And each of those moments Taking that risk, then I know it's scary and something could not go right. And what if we fail? And that is the choice that we face. And you want to learn how to have the tools and the strategies to handle the failure to get back up after you fall. And I teach those things, in fact, inside of Confidence Unleashed, which I believe is hands down one of the most powerful confidence training systems in the world. Certainly the most powerful thing that I've ever created for people. And that's the feedback that I've gotten is like, this is life changing. This is like the guy who actually edited it for me, a video editor, he got a chance to watch the whole thing probably like a million times. And he said, I've been to a lot of therapy. He's like, this is like three years of therapy in nine modules. So it's one of the most powerful techniques. And in there they teach you how to deal with failure, how to overcome that fear of rejection. So how those things never hold you back again. And in a really realistic, human way, it's not some sort of like, you know, change your brain and be a robot and never feel pain again. I mean, it's not realistic, right? We're gonna feel pain, we're gonna get hurt, it's gonna suck. But then we gotta learn how to have that not stop us, how to come back stronger, how to love ourselves even more and get support from people that we love. And if you don't have people that are that you love and that love you, around you, supporting you, then you got to create that. And the Confidence Unleashed and applying this in your social life is going to be what helps you do that. So we got to take that path of risk. And if you do that, if you consistently do that, your confidence will continue to increase in every single area. That's been my experience. Clients have told me that. And in my life, it started out no confidence in any area. Then it was lots of risks and taking the risk path and dating relationships. Then it was taking the risk path and creating lasting relationships and eventually being able to be married happily and sustain it. Because I used to have so much fear about that. Then it was in my career and being able to pursue a field that I was really passionate about. And then it was creating my own therapy business, and then it was creating this coaching business, and then it was creating videos. And then it was, you know what? I could go on forever, but. But I've just been living that path daily. And the more you can do that, the more your confidence is going to continually non stop increase. So that sounds like a great idea to you? Then get out there and do that and share below your comments. What are the risks that you want to take? What are the risks that you are taking? Celebrate that stuff, you know, if you have some hangups or challenges about how to take the risks, share below. Ask questions. Let's support each other. I encourage you, if you're reading the comments below, to answer the people's questions and share. And let's all talk about this stuff because that's how we're going to set ourselves free. And if you want to go deeper, check out other episodes of the show because the more you watch, the more you're going to learn, the more you're going to set yourself free. And if you really want to break free fast in a systematic way, that's not a bunch of random videos, but that's like guiding you step by step. Check out Confidence unleashed. Go to confidenceunleashednow.com that system will set you free. So check that out. And until we speak again, may you have the courage to be who you are and to know on a deep level that you're awesome. I'll talk to you soon.