This content was created by Dr. Aziz. This content was uploaded by Dr. Aziz. This is a YouTube video titled "The REAL Reason For Low Confidence" featuring Dr. Aziz, created on June 7, 2024. In this video, Dr. Aziz discusses the misconception people have about lacking confidence and emphasizes that true confidence is an internal process of self-acceptance and self-celebration.
I ask clients this question all the time, and they always get it wrong. I ask them, why do you think you lack confidence? And they say, well, I'm not this enough. I'm not tall enough, I'm not rich enough, I'm not pretty enough, I'm not social enough. I don't have enough friends. I don't have enough following whatever they're pointing to in their life. And that answer, whatever your answer is, if I ask you that same question, is wrong. And the real answer, the reason you're not confident with yourself, because confidence is an inside job. It doesn't matter how many friends or followers, how many people love you. Confidence comes from the inside. And it comes when you own and sell, celebrate who you are and live from that place. So the reason that you lack confidence is because you don't like who you are. You're pressuring yourself to be something that someone else told you you're supposed to be. Or you compare yourself to somebody, say, I'm supposed to be like that. You are not owning and honoring who you are. That is the only reason why someone lacks confidence, and that is the only way to transform your confidence.
