This content was created by Dr. Aziz. This content was uploaded by Dr. Aziz. This is a YouTube video titled "This Mistake Keeps You Stuck In Niceness" created on January 19, 2024, featuring Dr. Aziz discussing the importance of directly asking for what you want instead of hinting, to improve personal interactions and receive more positive responses.
One mistake that you're making right now that's keeping you stuck in niceness and preventing people from giving you what you want. And it's this. You are hinting at what you want instead of asking for it. And it might feel like you're asking for it, but actually it's a little hint. You say something like, oh, that show on Saturday looks really cool. Oh, I wonder if they're gonna be going to that thing. Oh, you guys are doing the brunch thing on Sunday. That's cool. What am I not doing? I'm not saying, hey, I want to go to that thing on Saturday. I'd love to go with you. Do you want to do that with me? Hey, you guys are going to brunch on Sunday. Can I join you? When you ask directly, people will respond with either a yes or a no. And you're going to get way more yeses than you ever thought possible.
