Dr. Aziz delivers a motivational talk about increasing confidence in dating and relationships. He frames confidence on a 1–10 scale, contrasts low vs. high confidence outcomes, emphasizes that close relationships are the most meaningful part of life, and argues that improving one’s "inner game" (self-worth, beliefs) is essential beyond dating techniques. He promotes a live event called "Unlimited Dating and Relationship Confidence," mentioning a super early-bird special and a sign-up link in the video description.
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Quick question. What is your confidence in your love life right now? From 1 to 10? 10 is. It's high. You feel great, you feel desirable, you feel lovable. You have great experiences with dating where you can be authentically yourself. And you know that even if someone doesn't want you and they reject you, you're okay because you're awesome. And you might be in a relationship where it feels great, you feel like more love than you've ever experienced, getting better and better every year. That would be a 10 or a 1. A 1 will be the opposite end of the spectrum. You know, you feel limited, you feel stuck, you feel totally unlovable, you think you're ugly. No one would want to be with you, you know, of course no one want to be with me. Look at me. Whether you feel that way physically or emotionally, you just think you're not good enough. Or maybe you're hopeless. Maybe you feel helpless. Maybe you feel like all the good ones are taken or all the ones that I want, don't want me. And when you ask yourself, when you imagine, like, okay, a year from now or two years from now, I'm going to be in an amazing relationship, there's a part in your mind that says, yeah, right. And if that's where you're at, let's change that. Let's change that. Because here is the thing that virtually everyone says as they get closer to the end of their life, when they ask people to say, what was the most important thing in this life for you? They say, not how much I work, not the money that I have, not even the impact that I made through my work in the world. The thing that's most important and meaningful to people is their close relationships with those that they love, particularly their significant other, their spouse, someone they love, someone they're connected with, their kids, the family they create, the family that's close to them, their deepest friendships. That's what matters most. And so here's this thing where our confidence is low in that area, and it's at the end of our life, you know, we can get distracted with other things like work and achievements and other things, but at the end of the day, what we want most is that love. And so if this is an area that you want to skyrocket your confidence in, because if you get that confidence up to a 6, 7, all of a sudden, doors are going to start opening for you. You're going to feel so much better. If you get even higher, then you can create the thing that's going to feel the Most fulfilling in your life. Being able to know that you're worthy and can put yourself out there and create connections when you want. Being able to know that you're an amazing person, that someone would feel be fortunate to be dating you or to be in a relationship with you, that you bring so much to the table and not just to think it and not even just to feel it, but to know it in your core. And so much is going to open up for you. And I want to invite you because right now we're doing a super early bird special for my event called Unlimited Dating and Relationship Confidence. And of all of the events that I do, I'm probably the most passionate about this one because I lived with a story for so many years that it wasn't possible for me, that dating wasn't even possible for me. And then when I was dating, I was like, yeah, well, now I can date. But really good relationship that gets better and better every year where I'm deeply in love with that person. That's not possible. It's not possible because it doesn't exist. Or it's not possible for me because there's something wrong with me. And I get so sick and tired of these stories holding people back when the truth is you absolutely can create that. And that's what we get into at the event. You know, there's some technique and strategy of how to connect with others and how to become more attractive and magnetic. We get into that too, but. But we really get into the inner game because you can know all the techniques in the world, but if your inner game is not congruent with that, no one's going to respond to it. So we get you to a place of feeling totally confident, certain in yourself and knowing your value, knowing not just up here, but in your heart. And not speaking of heart, man, we all have a lot of blocks to letting love in, to expressing love, to expressing ourselves, expressing our desire, our love for other people, our interest in other people. And we're going to help you have the confidence to be able to do that, Put yourself out there and then receive what comes back and know that you're worthy of it. So we go deep into the inner game so you can maximize your confidence in dating. And if you're in a relationship too, how to enhance that, because that's what closes relationships down, is a lack of confidence, to be assertive, to say what we want to ask for. We want to share love in the ways that we want. So I am so passionate about this because I know that no matter where you are in your confidence, you can skyrocket now in your love life, and. And it's gonna be the most important thing at the end of the day, at the end of our lives. So right now we're doing the super early bird special where you can get the ticket for a huge chunk off. And you can click down below in the description for this video. We'll have a link right to that page. You can sign up. That's good through just about another week here or so. Depends on when you're watching this video. Might even be ending sooner than that. So click down below to see the. The page to sign up for that and just take the leap. I mean, if you're watching my YouTube channel and it's been benefiting you, and I know that it has, we had a lot of comments, like endless emails and other things from people that this channel just can change your life just by doing what we talk about here and learning from each other. Just imagine how much that can be intensified by being together for three full days in a room, like, really focused on this and making this a top priority by flying out here by saying, this is what matters to me. This is what's important for me. So click the link down below in the description to go to that page and sign up. I would love to see you at the event. And more importantly, I would love to see you light up at the event and watch from Friday to Sunday you transform into this, where your ability to confidently put yourself out there, express yourself, let your light shine, just be at the highest level possible. I cannot wait to see that and be there with you. All right. Till we speak, then may have the courage to be who you are and to know on a deep level that you're awesome. Talk to you soon.
