Dr. Aziz argues that your sense of worthiness doesn't determine what you can actually achieve. Make your liberation list: the major goals you want, from deeper friendships to career changes. Then pursue them without waiting to feel worthy enough.
whatever it is you want to create. If you think about your liberation list, your big goals in this program, in your life, I want to connect. I want to have friendships. I want to be more authentically me in love and relationships. I want to have a better relationship with my parents or my kid or my spouse. I want more intimacy in my life. I want a partner. I want to be more bold in my career. I want to step forward and share my ideas. I want to step into leadership. I want to start this new consulting thing on the side. I want to change careers, whatever a more bold, authentic version of you is doing in the world. Your sense of worthiness, your observation of that metric is irrelevant to the creation of those things.
