Elizabeth Stone answers whether your boyfriend is right for you and how to stand out as a children's book author. She argues that success comes from deciding what you want and acting on it, not from seeking certainty. Your internal confidence determines the outcome.
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Hi, I'm Elizabeth Stone, and here's today's question. Or questions. My questions are a few. First, is the man I am with right for me? We are quite different. I'm positive, he's pretty negative. A good man, but I'm a little younger than him. Second question, I am wanting to write children's books, yet I stop myself thinking there's many books out for kids. How would I be different? So that's all it says? And I have no idea about the answers to these questions. I am not a psychic or a magic swamp. The thing is, for anything to work in your life, you have to decide to be successful and follow through with the actions to make these things successful. If you really don't know what to do or need a unique perspective, then hire a professional coach who knows the territory and then chip away at whatever you want until you get somewhere. You only get success when you earn it. Success isn't found in asking for certainty and security from internet strangers who don't even know you. Success is found by asking yourself, what do I want? Then getting out and getting it. No one is going to do it for you. No one is going to make that decision except you. If you're sitting around wondering your chances of success, you aren't using that time and energy doing anything you can to ensure your success. It doesn't matter whether it's a relationship or a book career. If you want something, if you have a lot of doubts, then you're going to act as though you're uncertain, and then you'll get the results of that uncertainty. If you think he's wrong for you, you will find 200 things wrong with him. If you think you're not quite enough to succeed at children's books, you'll probably hold back and find that you're right. Your identity is the most important thing. In your creativity. Only you know about your unique gifts and talents. Do you love the man? Do you want to write the books? Then you already know what you should be doing. So get yourself out there and do it, because the world needs your gifts and talents. All right, please like and subscribe. It really helps the channel to grow. If you're interested in getting my help with your situation, I offer one-on-one coaching. You can go to my website and there is a coaching tab at the top of the page. On that page, you will see instructions for how to sign up. Otherwise, there are 2 master classes that you can sign up for free while you're there. They are the 7 Blocks to Manifesting Love and 3 Innocent Mistakes Women Make with Men. So, go ahead and sign up and I'd love to hear from you. Until next time, I'm Elizabeth Stone.
